by Susan Anderson

Ask your partner if he or she remembers when you both met. Were there a lot of sparks and fun flirting with the first meeting? Now you both don’t know why you both don’t connect the way you used to like when you first met.

When you and your partner fells in love for the first time, it became an exciting and happy time. Now that you have been together awhile, things have gotten boring and just a dull routine when you are together. Do you both still remember what drew you together and do you recall the passion you both shared?

* Get some flirting going, laugh, smile…joke around together. Nothing is more desirable than someone flirting a little then holding back. Then, find something else to do, leaving them wondering if they want more from you later.

* Don’t be available continually. Get caught up in your work, responsibilities, activities…Find things that you like to do. Spend time with some of your friends or buddies. Your ex or partner will wonder about what you are doing.

* Try to look your most attractive. If you want, get a flattering new hairstyle, makeup (if you’re a woman). Work out or get some kind of exercise—as this will reflect in your energy level. You will come across as more energetic and sexy to your ex or significant other.

* When you do meet your ex or partner, learn to pay attention to him or her. Be genuinely involved in what’s going on in his or her life. Bring up old times where you had great shared memories together.

Relationships take awhile to get back to the way they were when they first started. Be independent with your life with other activities and friends, yet make sure you spend time with the one you love. Your time together will be much more special.

If you are apart now, realize that it takes time to rebuild the relationship you had together. One of the worst things someone can do is be a pest, stalker, or appear hopelessly impulsive. Relax, be patient, and show your love.

Take your time, and hope for the best. You can fall in love again with your partner if you want to work at it. If the relationship is worth it to the both of you, it can work with some dedication.

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