Sep 25 2008
The Reason Why Women Break Up With Men
When a women breaks up with a man she will find that it is one of the most difficult things a woman has to do in her lifetime. Some men will be surprised why women do break up and this may even help him to prevent this from happening. Once men find out about this, they may be able to stop it when they see the warning signs.
Deep down a woman wants the man to take the authority role in the relationship. Remember that there is a difference between being controlling and being dominant over a person. Women love to feel that they are cherished and nurtured by the strong, but gentle guidance of her partner.
Most women need to be positive that their man has a strong backbone and an ability to make positive choices in life. Women will start to become uncertain about the future of their relationship if he does not exhibit any strong qualities and backbone in his personality. Some women will leave a man at this point, or some will start to look for other signs that he is not the man for them.
A woman loves a guy who is sensitive as well. I did say sensitive, right? Yes! However it is a turn off when a guy is too passive. He needs to be able to say where he wants to go or what he wants to do.
To always let her have her way shows a woman that you don’t have a backbone. If you don’t feel like you need to go out of your way to impress a woman and you are natural by being yourself, this is attractive. You can have a healthy balance between the two.
If you are a man that are always letting her have her way, you have become very predictable and boring. Basically, most woman like a man who is full of pleasant surprises. They like spontaneous, charisma and excitement which can mean small gifts, a trip, a piece of lingerie, flowers, a surprise date to her favorite restaurant.
One big turnoff for many women is the super controlling obsessive type of guy who constantly suspects other men’s motives with their lady. She may be extremely gorgeous and sexy, but with no trust in the relationship with your lady you will not last as a couple much longer. Trusting your partner can be extremely hard to do, but it really does help nurture a healthy relationship.
If you are all the time hanging out with the guys or you just don’t say too much, a woman will seek someone to talk to elsewhere. That is just part of the interplay of a relationship. No matter how busy you are, please make time for your lady because she should be the most important person in the world to you.
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