by John Belair

“Breaking up is hard to do”. Everyone knows the song and how true it is – breaking up is indeed hard to do. We never think about just how hard it can be; at least until it happens to us. A breakup can be incredibly tough and in the aftermath, you may want more than anything to get your ex back.

I’d like to give you a little information about how you can successfully get back with your ex after a breakup. There are some things which have worked to bring exes crawling back.

If you’ve had a recent breakup, you are certainly having a tough time. It’s hard to sleep, you lose your appetite; it’s extremely unpleasant. However, it may be possible to fix things. By following these tips, you may be successful in getting your ex back.

The first thing you need to focus on is the following – Don’t contact your ex! It’s amazing how many people shoot themselves in the foot after a breakup or seperation. They call, email or text message their ex several times a day in the hopes that it will somehow win them back.

You CAN’T do this if you want your relationship to rekindle. You will only annoy your ex and I promise you it does far more harm than good. As hard as it is, give them space.

This is why you should not try to contact your ex – they will actually want to get in touch with you! When your ex thinks about the fact that you haven’t contacted them, they will become curious about what you are up to and call you.

Your ex expects you to call, begging and pleading. However, if you avoid doing this, this will surprise them. While it may be hard for you to keep from calling your ex, it is very important that you not do so. If you give your ex some time, they’ll reach out to you and you will now be in a position of power!

There are also a couple of things which you must never, EVER do. If you’re serious about getting your ex back, then do not:

- Plead with your ex to take you back or apologize to him or her.
- Call your ex drunk.
- Contact your ex’s friends for advice on getting your ex back.

There are other “must nots”, but these are the three most important. You have to avoid appearing like you have been crushed by the loss and you definitely don’t want to look needy. When you are sad, you are not attractive and this is not how you want your ex to see you!

There are other strategies which are proven to help in regaining an ex; the tips given here are just a few methods which can be effective. You can get your ex back if you work according to a plan and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes.

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