by Donna York

Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. Here are some suggestions as to how you might rekindle the love within your marriage, make your partner long to be with you and strengthen your feelings for each other.

Send them a unique gift: Get some crayons and a piece of paper. Draw a bright childlike image with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands.

If your drawing isn’t faultless it doesn’t really matter, but show that you have put some effort into making it look nice and beautiful. Don’t forget to write your names above the figures. You should also draw a big heart and write inside it “I love you” or “I still love you”.

Put your creation inside an envelope,seal it and address it to your partner’s office, for example “For the Urgent and Instant Attention of Jennifer Miller, Floor 10, Peter and John Company, LA”. It should be received by your partner at her office in the middle of a tiring and challenging day.

One summer evening, enjoy a picnic together. Bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. As you enjoy the food, lie down on the blanket and gaze at sky.

You could surprise your partner by delivering a single rose when you know she will be at home. A message such as “You mean everything to me” could be affixed to it.

Massage in a special way: Purchase some massage oil, a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper and a blank card. Use tissue paper to line the box. Arrange the massage items on a table and write this message on the blank card “if you want a sensual massage call this number (your phone number)”.

Remember childhood memories: Walk into the park with your partner and give her a swing.

In the summer, buy two big water pistols and take them along with you to the beach. Each take one and have a big water fight with your partner.

Determine whether there was something she’s always wanted when she was a little girl. Give this as a gift on her birthday.

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