by Marc Sandford

Almost all guys know that being masculine is a turn on for women. Some will endure rigorous workouts to achieve a chiseled physique and often wear clothing styles that project a macho look. This is good but there’s something else they’ve overlooked that’s really effective in keeping a lady’s interest.

This “something else” is having certain skills on being the romantic Don Juan type. Women love it and Hollywood has been telling us this for a very long time. Here are some pointers to help you get started in the right direction:

1.) The next time she is doing some shopping, go with her. This is her day so you will have to stay with her and focus on her experience. You can’t bolt out to the sporting goods section to check out things that interest you. You will have to be interested in whatever interests her.

2.) Try a little flirting with her. Flirtation is frequently employed as an opening move in beginning an affair with a woman. But, making it a habit after you’ve won her over will strengthen the bonds of affection.

Teasing her in a loving or playful way can also be very powerful. Just be careful to stay away from any insecurities that she may have.

3.) If she needs to tell you how her day went, stop whatever it is that you are doing and listen to her. Don’t attempt this when you’re reading the newspaper or watching television. Devoting your undivided attention is crucial to letting her know that you really care.

Avoid giving her any husbandly advice. She’s not looking for an answer or information. She wants to express her subjective feelings and is looking for emotional support.

4.) If she loves the outdoors, plan a picnic. An old fashion picnic can be a very romantic affair. Spend a lazy summer afternoon snuggled up in a hammock watching the clouds and talking to each other.

A good variation is to do the same thing on a warm night with a full moon.

5.) Meet with each other for the evening and make up some love coupons. How you redeem them can be very simple such as drawing one at random from a hat or turning it into an elaborate game. The games that you can play are entirely limited by your imagination.

With a bit of practice, romance will get to be very natural.

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